5 Questions Ladies Do Not Want To Be Asked On A First Date.

Getting to know a lady better is a good thing to do, especially if you want to start a relationship with her. Women are attracted to sapiosexual guys and would love to be around them each passing day because of their intelligence. To begin with, you have to plan a date to meet up with her, ask questions and interact with her.

Asking questions is part of getting to know the lady you’re interested in. It’s a good thing to do that, but there are limits to the questions you need to ask. Need I remind you that some questions put women off, and they may deem it necessary not to answer.

These are five questions you’re not supposed to ask a woman during your first date with her. On a first date, you just need to be a gentleman and not go overboard with your questions.

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1. Asking if she has a boyfriend:

Women are very cunning and may politely ignore this question with another question like, “Are you really serious? Do you want this?” Kinda question. If you want her, just go with the flow. It doesn’t matter if she’s dating or not. If you’re the one she wants, she will stay with you, and if not, she will tell you you’re both not suitable, so she’s not interested.

Yes, it’s a good thing to know if a woman is interested in dating or not, but asking that question wouldn’t help. Women know what they want, and when they find it, they go for it. Dating someone doesn’t mean she’s married to him, so she can decide on whom to date, provided she sees some qualities she wants in a man in you.

2. Asking her about her favourite sex position:

Really? On a first date with a woman? Wait, what do you take her for? A random girl you picked from the street? No, don’t ever ask a lady what her favorite sex position is on a first date. It’s a turn-off for every woman who is ready to date a guy. Get to know her much better before you ask all these questions. You might even be surprised that she would be the one to start with those topics as she gets familiar with you.

There are so many questions you need to ask. Why ask her that? She will be embarrassed and will not want to see you anymore because you see her as a random girl. Some women go on dating sites to find a serious partner to be with. They want a long-term relationship that could end in marriage. The moment you begin to ask those questions, it’s a no-deal for them. They go away and never want to even reply your messages

3. Why isn’t she married:

Some women do not want to talk about their past, especially when they barely know you. Why a woman isn’t married shouldn’t be your business. The most important thing is getting to know her more, and if she’s your match, you date her. Women do not like explaining themselves to strangers they meet on the first date. It hurts a woman’s feelings to ask about that. Unless she talks about it with you, don’t ask her.

A lot of women may be divorced, left at the altar, or have been in very bad relationships in the past. A woman does not have to be a particular age to get married, and if you’re interested, bond with her, be the best man she ever had, and wife her up.

4. What does she bring to the table?

It’s a no, no to ask a lady this question. Someone you just met for the first time, for that matter. It an awkward question to ask. You’ve not even started dating, and you’re already asking what she is going to bring to the table. Relax, man, a table that is not even visible. Why would you ask her that?

She would only see that you’re not a serious person and not a man to date. Asking a lady what she brings to the table means you see her as a liability or that she doesn’t have anything to offer in the relationship. First of all, you both need to have a plan for the future and decide what to put on the table, but that would be after you get acquainted with each other. Go straight to the point. It’s just a date, not some science and math questions.

5. Asking her about how her sexual life has been

Most ladies do not like to talk about their sex lives, especially to someone they get to meet for the first time. Some would also love it if she kept this kind of information to herself. It makes a lady uncomfortable to talk about their sex life and what they expect from a guy.

It also makes the woman think you’re in for her body and nothing serious. She would expect you to ask reasonable questions that could make the date interesting and memorable after she leaves. Women know what they want, and when you ask those kinds of questions, they only see you as a “flirt” or a “play guy.” After the date, she may not want to have anything to do with you.

These are some tips that could help you have a successful first date with a woman, and she will love how pious and orderly you were.

Learn more of the tips here to help you have an interactive convo with her.

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