10 Signs To know Your Partner Is No More Interested In You.

I have a friend who always comes to me with complaints about her partner not putting much energy into their relationship. Her boyfriend, with whom she had been together for about two years. According to her, she feels the guy is no more interested with her, and she doesn’t know what to do.

I hated the fact that she was doing everything to make this relationship work, but the more she did, the more the guy showed no concern about the relationship.

She cried anytime she came to make this complaint. I advised her so many times to let this guy go, but to no avail. She always professes her undying love for this particular guy, who never shows much interest in their relationship.

One particular thing that got my attention was when she told me her boyfriend forgot to wish her a happy birthday and didn’t buy her a gift.

“Sorry, I forgot,” was what he told her, and again she called me, crying bitterly. I asked her only one question: “Girl, are you really sure this guy loves you as much as you claim he does?” She was mute on the other side of the phone for a minute and answered, “I honestly don’t know.”

Now why am I saying this? More often than not, we date people, and they fall out of love with us without showing interest anymore. But because we love them so much, we turn blind eyes to it, leaving us with heartbreak.

No one should tell you that your partner is no longer interested in you. There are signs to help you detect if they’re no longer interested in you, so you can stop this “happy ever after” daydreaming. That’s why I’m here to help you detect them.

1. They call or reply to your messages a day later.

A partner who calls or replies to your text a day or two after you call is no longer interested in the relationship. They give the Sorry, I was busy” or “I didn’t see your call or text. “
when you try asking them.

They make you look confused and lost in your thoughts. Don’t bother yourself; just know that they are no more interested in the relationship. So you better advise yourself and save yourself from heartbreak.

2. They start blaming you for no reason.

For the least mistake done, they start to shout at you because, at this point, whatever you do irritates them. They don’t care about what you feel for them or how you feel about them. They blame you for any mistake you make, especially when they want you to feel bad about yourself.

There’s no amount of apology that can change their minds. Calm down; you didn’t do anything wrong. It’s just a way to tell you, “I am no longer interested, please move away.”

3. They forget very important occasions.

They don’t remember anything concerning you, not even your birthday or your anniversary. They tend to make themselves so busy that they forget anything about you. When you ask them why, they only give you the “I was so busy, dear, sorry I forgot” reply.

Because they have their thoughts on something else, you come last in their decision making. In fact, they don’t see a future with you, and the sooner you know this, the better for you.

4. They give you excuses if you ask to see them.

Today, they’re here, tomorrow, they’re there. They have no time for you anymore. Your presence becomes irritating to them; hence, they do not want you around them anymore. They use every possible means to try and keep you away from them.

Either they have a place to go, something came up, or they have something to attend to. Just because they don’t want to see you, they try to come up with lame excuses to keep you away from them. Your presence disgusts them. Know this, and know peace.

5. They refuse any offer you give.

When they were fond of you, they appreciated the little things you did for them. The little gifts, the help, the advice, and the encouragement. But this time, they don’t seem to ask for your advice or your opinion about a situation. They don’t involve you in their decision-making and even reject any offer from you.

They undermine your effort and ask you to keep your thoughts to yourself. And when you try to confront them, they tell you they have everything under control. They know what they’re up to, and they won’t tell you their next move. Be on your guard.

6. They don’t want to hear the mention of your name

When their love was new and young, they had butterflies in their belly just at the mention of your name. But they do not want to hear your name, not even from any of their family members. They easily get irritated by the mention of your name.

They try as hard as possible to avoid you when they meet up with you or even visit you at their place. In their minds, they’re done with you, but it’s going to take a while to voice it out. Read the signs and move on.

7. They create unnecessary arguments

Just a little misunderstanding, and they’re going to make a huge argument from it. They argue about matters that do not call for arguments. False accusations and calling you all sorts of names. They just need an opportunity to call it quits, but they don’t know how to.

After creating an argument, they want to receive an apology from you because they know they have the upper hand in the relationship. I will advise you not to involve yourself in any arguments with them. Just leave and go out to clear your mind.

8. They threaten to leave you for any slight mistake you make.

Your partner always threatens to leave you; just know that it’s something they’re planning to do and it’s not a joke. A person who loves you wouldn’t threaten to leave you for any mistake you make. This is what they do: threaten you on a regular basis so that when they take action, they will remind you about it.

They will remind you that they kept telling you they were going to leave, but you kept repeating the same mistake. Take a chill pill and don’t harm yourself. You have done nothing wrong.

9. They no longer compliment you or your efforts.

They don’t look at you to tell you how smartly you have dressed. In fact, they don’t care about how you look anymore. They used to tell you how beautiful or handsome you were, but they stopped. And when you ask them, they tell you, “You’re just okay.”

Aside from that, they don’t appreciate it when you help with cooking, cleaning, washing, or even dressing the room. They see it as a normal day-to-day activity. They become reluctant to be in the relationship without adding any value to you.

10. They make you look desperate

The consistency with which you beg for their attention makes you feel desperate and unnecessarily like a nag. They make you look like you’re desperately in love with them and can’t do anything without them. You beg for their attention and support. And any small complaint you make, they call you a nugget.

They tell you that you nag about every little thing. Making them sick and tired of you. They complain to their friends, family, and your friends about your nagging attitude. They try to paint you black in the sight of everybody. Relax, allow them to do whatever they want. Don’t act desperate.

Whenever you see any of these traits in your partner, try making sure you advise yourself before you end up with a breakup message. Before told, is before harm.

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